Here’s Donna’s Question for Erik. Actually, Erik didn’t have as much to do with this one, because Donna’s parents were in the room with the medium and could answer all questions about themself. He does contribute when the questions revolve around Donna’s son, however.

Donna’s Question

I want to thank you and Erik and Kim for considering my questions.  I’m sure there are many people requesting your help and I know that most of their requests are more urgent than mine.  I ask these questions out of curiosity more than anything else so I will understand if you don’t have time for them.  If you and Erik are able to respond but don’t have the time for all of my questions, please consider the last question the most important as it will be a big validation for me.

I am Donna, age 55 from Riverside, NJ

I want to know how my parents are, if they are together and well.  And I want to ask my Mom if she is enjoying her family reunion. I have some guilt about the events surrounding her passing – if I could have done more or if I had been there the day before to make sure she was being cared for properly.

My Mom – Caroline, Philadelphia, PA (age 74)

My Dad – Robert Philadelphia, PA (age 64)

I’m wondering how Jason is doing – he has recently crossed over.  Does he have any messages for family or friends?

Jason–Philadelphia, PA (age 28)

Thank you.

Donna

Channeling Transcript

Me: Okay, Erik, the next one is from Donna. She’s 55, living in Riverside, New Jersey. She wants to know how her parents are and if they’re together. Her mom’s name is Caroline. She died in Philadelphia at the age of 74. Her dad’s name is Robert. He also died in Philadelphia at the age of 64.

Jamie (giggling): They’re VERY cute. They are together; they’re in the room together. It’s odd, though, because it’s showing that the mother crossed into the light before the father did. I’m not understanding why that is, since it’s showing that the dad died much earlier.

Me: Huh!

Jamie: I’m wondering if they had such a sweet love for each other when they were alive, that he waited for her to pass over, and then he went after her.

Me: Oh!

Jamie: Yeah, because there’s still love in the room! So it’s not “til death do us part!”

Me: Oh, how sweet!

Jamie: I just wanna tell you that she’s wearing this hat. It’s really cute, like a—you know one of those hats that have a brim all the way around them?

Me: Yeah.

Jamie: I would call it a garden hat, something you would wear outdoors. I don’t know why, but she’s wearing it indoors, and she looks really cute (laughing.) The father, he doesn’t have much of a message. He’s just saying hello. But the mother is thanking Donna for helping her cross over, for helping her put all her affairs in order, and she says, “Thanks, Donna for being…” Wait, what do you mean, Caroline?

(pause)

Jamie: Oh, she says, “Thanks for being the one to talk to me about death.” And the mom also says Donna was so sweet with her friends, that when her friends would call and wanted to do something, Donna would handle them and keep them informed.

Me: Okay.

Jamie: It’s interesting, because I don’t see Donna and her parents living near each other, but there was still that connection that Donna still knew where her mom’s life was.

Me: Now there’s also a Jason, not sure what the relation is to Donna, but I know he’s in the family. He passed in Philadelphia at the age of 28. She just wants to know if he has any messages?

Jamie: Did they tell you how Jason died?

Me: No, she didn’t.

Jamie (sounding confused): Did they say if it was a suicide?

Me: No, I don’t know! Could be, at that young age.

Jamie: Could be an accident. But “suicide” was the first thing I heard when you said “Jason.” I heard it even before knowing if he was dead or alive.

(pause)

Jamie: He’s not in the room, so I’m asking Erik.

(pause)

Jamie: Erik says that Jason is confused.

Me: Well, he passed recently, in April of this year, so that makes sense. He’s still trying to adjust to the afterlife?

Jamie: He says, “Yeah, exactly. And Mom, if you want to give them a positive message, just tell them how much Jason enjoys hearing them talk positive about him.” Erik also says that Jason will start showing signs when he’s capable of communicating, especially in the dream state, because apparently Jason is really talented at that.

Jamie seemed confused about whether Jason died from suicide or an accident. I found out after this session that he died from a car accident, so I also wondered why “suicide” came up right away.  I asked Erik, again through Jamie, to clarify this in the session I had this morning. Here’s what he said:

Channeling Transcript

Me: I would like to get clarification for Donna, 55 from Riverside, New Jersey. Last week, we asked about her son, Jason. The word “suicide” came up, but there was confusion about that, about whether it was an accident or suicide. Why the confusion?

Erik: Because Jason was in complete awareness and control. It was not accident.

Me: But he was happy, not suicidal!

Erik: Not suicide in the traditional sense. Mom, you know how people sometime toy with, “What would happen it I jumped off this balcony?”

Me: Uh huh, yeah.

Erik: There’s a name for that kind of thing, that kind of attraction, like, “What would happen if I put the car into that telephone pole?” but he didn’t do that, of course. That’s just an example of that kind of edginess, that flirting with danger, you know? Most people never, ever follow through, but since he was “influenced” it was more like, “Yeah, what would happen?” That’s why I’m thinking, “Not accident.” It’s not like he slid or lost control or…

Me: So not a total accident. There was some risk seeking involved, some flirting with danger, horsing around.

Erik: Exactly.

Me: Wow, that’s interesting. That sounds right. It totally feels right. He did die on 4/20 and was smoking pot.

Jamie: That does make sense then.

Donna’s Description of the Accident

He was driving with his girlfriend in the passenger seat.  They were going to a local bar to sing karaoke – a regular “thing” they did.  There were on a four-lane highway.   Two cars whose passengers knew each other were traveling in the opposite direction in the opposite lanes.  The drivers were “fooling around” (but according to police were not speeding).  The two cars bumped each other and the centrifugal motion sent them into the other lane, hitting Jason’s car head-on.  The other drivers and Jason’s girlfriend were not badly hurt.  But Jason’s head hit the back of the seat (the headrest) so hard, that it crushed his skull.  The four lanes are separated by a grass median along most of the road except at the spot where the accident happened.

Additional note:  This happened on 4/20/10.  I don’t know if you are aware, but 4/20 is a “cult” day for young people as 420 is a code for drugs (I’m not exactly sure but I think it originated in the ’70’s because I think Quaalude pills are marked with the number 420).  It has become something of a “Cinquo De Mayo” type of day although in an underground way, associated with pot smoking, if you know what I mean.  Jason was a pot smoker, he liked smoking pot.  My daughter told me this:  “somebody said that Jay said that if he died he’d want to go high, on 420, in a car accident because he loved to drive and smoke.”

The tragic folly of youth brings tears to my eyes and sorrow to my heart. I send prayers of love and healing to you, Donna, and I certainly feel your pain.