Do You Feel Like You Don’t Belong?

Me: Here we are for Part Four of the Woo-woo Guru’s session about the human experience.

Jamie (smiling and rubbing her nose): Erik loves that title. He’s cracking up.

Me: Let’s talk about some of the struggles people have. There are some people who feel like they don’t belong. Can you tell us what that’s all about and what they can do about it?

Erik: You mean the “Ungrounders”?

Me: You tell me.

Jamie (to Erik): Tell us. What’s an “Ungrounder”?

Erik: That’s somebody who lives their whole life and never feels like they can never put their feet in the ground and really feel it.

(Long pause)

Jamie: So, I should have asked my question out loud. You can always tell when I’m quiet I’m doing something in my head. So I asked him, ‘Are those the people who feel like they can’t have the human experience?’

Erik: Yeah. They’re the ones who are coming in from other life sources. Listen to me. We’re just going to be real clear. Human beings, which I like to refer to as emotional beings, are not the only beings in existence. (In a sassy voice, raising his hand and touching thumb to index finger.) Period.

Jamie and I laugh.

Jamie: That was really sassy of him.

Me: He’s sassy today!

Jamie: Mm hm.

Erik: These people who come in from other life sources sometimes have a hard time being human. They have a hard time moving in the human body, having the human experience—you know, making a home, going to work, creating a family, having an emotional connection to somebody else, because they’re used to drawing from a different set of emotional values. We just don’t have those here. Every life source—

Jamie (to Erik): What are you talking about? Other races? Aliens? Can we use that term?

Erik: Hell yeah, we can use that term! Aliens. Every form of alien life systems, they communicate in different ways, and yes, we can have our soul exist in other life forms. Okay, so (moving his hands like he’s smoothing out a blanket) let me lay it out for you. These are the life forces that are coming in and reincarnating—I fucking hate to use that word, because it totally assumes that time is linear and that pisses me off. I like anybody who’s tapping in to the Channeling Erik Book of Knowledge—

Jamie and I laugh.

Erik: —to know that time is NOT linear, but I am bound by the stupid English language, and that’s the fucking word you created and that’s what I have to use. That pisses me off!

Me: Well, we’re going to talk about time in depth later.

Erik: Yeah, yeah. We totally have to talk about that, Mom.


Jamie: He’s telling me he loves that. So, even though he’s using the term “reincarnation, he wants you to know that time is not linear so this is not past life, present life and future life.

Erik: So, other life forms or aliens, if that’s what you wanna call them—other dimensional beings—are reincarnating into the human beings. Happens all the fucking time. This is not new. It’s just new because the language attached to it—our curiosities of the sky—and science is trying to tap into that shit. These people who do so have a hard time grounding. So we kind of call them the non-grounders. They have a sense of, “I don’t belong; I can’t connect.” This is a huge reason why. I would say to these people, “Chill out. You’re okay. You’re not broken. Trust me, you’re not broken. You’re doing this for a reason, and I think slowing your mind down from bickering and complaining to yourself that you’re not feeling right because you hear how other men and other women feel and you want that.” All right, first of all, that’s just flat out jealousy. You are what you are, and you have to love on that a little bit. So chill your head a little bit and figure out why the fuck did you do this to yourself? It is your choice. Nobody is making you do shit. You’re deciding to have this kind of experience. Was it to be a scout? Most of the time—I say “scout: because I mean “observer”.  Most of the time you’re going to jump into completely difference life form structures just to be a witness. See what it’s like. “Why is this so good for them?” “Why is this so bad for them?” So you’ll find your career and your family life, personal life, all of that will revolve around just watching and enjoying that. Logging information. Needing to know details. Just own up to that’s who you are and live it to its fullest. Then you won’t have that feeling that you can’t connect. You’ll have this vein of purpose, this line of purpose. There are other reasons why they come in to, not just to be the seeker or observer. It could be to feel. It could be to have conflict, because Earth is a kickass place to come in and have conflict.

Me: Tell me about it!

Jamie laughs.

Erik: That’s true. Right Mom?

Me: Mm hm.

Erik: There are other planets and locations that have conflict too, but the sweet thing about having conflict on Earth is that there is forgiveness and resolution. A lot of times with other life forms there isn’t that. Once there’s a conflict, there’s a non-return. Non-return point of being. Not here. So there’s a sweetness to conflict when you have it on Earth. I don’t know. I’m trying to learn more about that shit. Us, our lifestyles, cultures and societies and patterns compared to alternative dimensional beings’ lifestyles and patterns. You know, I know a little bit, but I wouldn’t call myself the guru on that topic.

Me (chuckling): That’s mighty humble of you.

Erik: Come on, Mom! I’m humble! (He points both index fingers at me and says): Back to you.


Dear Reader,

The journey on which you’re about to embark will take you through stories that are deeply personal and involves a relationship between a mother and her son.

As a physician raised by two atheists, I had no personal belief system about life after death. In a word, I was a confirmed skeptic. As my journey progressed, my mind opened. It is my sincerest hope that yours will open as well and that you will have a greater understanding of your own life and what’s to come ahead.

Although Erik sometimes paints a rosy picture of the afterlife, time and time again he stresses that suicide is not the answer to one’s problems. If you struggle, please understand that the information in my blog and my book is no substitute for professional help. Please click here for a list of resources for help when you find yourself considering taking your own life. Know that they are readily available when you feel that hopelessness and despair that many of us feel from time to time in our lives.

I refuse all donations and ad revenue on the blog. It is my dream to one day establish a nonprofit organization that delivers a variety of spiritual services for those who have lost loved ones to suicide and cannot afford that assistance on their own. It’s a mission of love, sacrifice, and dedication.

Love and light,


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