The Truth

My little 2.5 pound Yorkie was playing with my cat, Ringo and we suddenly heard a loud crack. Then she was unconscious and had a seizure. We took her to the emergency enter and they said she has a severe concussion. She’s really not feeling well. So, I missed the Channeling Erik event this morning. I heard it was amazing. Too bad. I missed hearing my boy. 🙁

Here’s another stellar post from Kate!

Wow, Erik, that was an amazing conversation with John just now.

I’m still pretty blown away by it, actually.  I think that I and most people, really, tend to look outside of ourselves for Truth (with a capital T, like, the REAL Truth) and this journey brings them all over the world, and to your blog, and my blog, to musicians, artists, psychics – even church.

Erik laughs and dresses as an alter boy!!!!  Singing “Oh holy night”. 

It started as a joke, but it’s actually a very beautiful song, one of my favourites.  Nice high notes there, Erik.  I didn’t know you had it in you!

Yeah, well, I can manifest perfect pre-pubescent vocal chords.  (voice cracks pubescently)

I think it would be awesome to continue our discussion about Truth, capital T.  Because I know that a lot of people feel like spiritual truth might depend upon other people agreeing with them, you know, because THEY ARE RIGHT.

We Are Right – WAR.  (laughs and shows me “Dinosaurs” – it was a show I vaguely remember in the 90s.  But they used that acronym for WAR.  Hah – “Gotta love me!” a catch phrase from the show.)

Okay, see, this is the thing, and I have to tell you guys that it’s making me sad.  Any time anyone from this dimension (heaven) or connected to the Truth as it can be viewed from up here, starts talking about this one VERSION of truth, it starts to fuck things up down here.  (Incarnated people, earth.)

To make it easy, “Up here / there” will be Erik’s dimension, “Down here / there” will be incarnation on earth.

It fucks things up for people down there, because they start wanting EVERYONE down there to AGREE with them, to see it their way, to know / understand and even state that We Are Right.

If you ever, ever, ever say to yourself “I am right” take a good look at yourself.  THAT is the shit that starts wars on high levels, but it just causes sadness on small levels too.

Like, say for mother’s day you and your sister want to buy Mom something, but you can’t agree on the restaurant / flowers / present, whatever.

(Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!  I’m gonna keep sayin’ it!)

You can fight and insist that you get mom an electric toothbrush for mother’s day, because you KNOW that’s what she wants, or you can let the sister buy Mom new curtains.  You can fight it, because you feel like curtains are stupid, and maybe Mom even ASKED for a toothbrush, right? 

Well Mom is going to love you no matter what you get her.  It’s like that up here too.  Moms are like God.  (Heaven, god, divine love)  You can not fuck it up.  You can never fuck up so bad, that your Mom isn’t going to love you anymore.  (teary eyes)

So there’s no reason to try and SAVE anybody else from their version of the truth. 

Like, what I just said about Moms are like God – what if you had an abusive or absent Mom?  That statement’s not your truth then.  Doesn’t make it wrong for me, doesn’t make it right for you.

There is no reason to argue about who has got it right, because you’re all on a train that’s going home anyway. 

The only thing you can ever do in the space of spiritual dissonance is to just add love.  Just keep adding love.  Love the fuck out of that person that’s annoying you.  Love the crap out of your annoying sister too.  Whenever you’re in a fight, or you’re feeling like someone is not understanding you and that *bothers* you, pull back.  Pull waaaaaaay the fuck back and understand that the feeling of *needing to be understood* is all energy that YOU are putting out there asking other people to pick up and carry for you.

It ain’t nobody else’s job to carry your Truth for you.  Your truth is your own, and there is enough truth to go around for everyone. 

If someone is seeing shit differently, you just tell ‘em that’s okay, even if you’re just saying that to them in your mind.  Because what you’re really doing is releasing yourself from the emotional investment in this person doing something differently.

Say some racist is a giant douche to you, and if you don’t tell him it’s uncool, that shit’s going to rot inside of you.  So you set your boundaries and you say, “Fuckin’ uncool dude.”

But then, you remember this guy is acting from his own version of reality.  There is a reason someone grows up to be a racist shit, like a dog that’s been kicked around too much and turns mean.  Are you going to kick that dog again, just because it’s barking?  You can walk away instead of punching the guy in the face.

Hmmm.  I don’t know, what about on a large scale, like (show him the Congo and the genocide.)  It’s one thing to be the bigger person and withdraw yourself from a negative interaction, but what about these large-scale events?

Well OF COURSE we should be over there rescuing / evacuating the citizens who want to get the fuck out of there.  There’s a difference there because in this case, the abused racist dog is actually ATTACKING people.  And there IS a lot of good work being done (shows me the volunteers, the schools, the mercy ships).  I can’t really speak to this thing I’m talking about today applying to huge world events like shit in the Congo, because it’s more complex than that.

But just thirty minutes ago, John was saying that it *is* that simple.

(Laughs!) that is John’s version of the truth!  You can simplify it, boil down to All You Need Is Love.  YOU CAN, because what are we all made of, anyway?  But see I know that’s not enough for some of *my* readers, because all that hippy shit doesn’t calm the monkey-mind, the hamster on the wheel, and the fear that creates all this other shit.  Unless you smoke A LOT of weed.

What I’m going to do, is bring you back up here (beginning of the entry and up to heaven) to see that everything that is happening is Okay, ESPECIALLY the small stuff like what to get your mother for mother’s day. 

Or what someone else might say about me or this blog.

(shows me a finger covering a dot on a piece of paper, which is “to put a delicate / fine point” upon his last statement.)

This one’s done.  (SMILE!)

Thank you Erik.

Kate Sitka is a spirit medium and animal communicator located in Tofino, BC.  To learn more about her and her work, please visit her website: her personal blog: and the Joyful Telepathy Facebook Group.

Dear Reader,

The journey on which you’re about to embark will take you through stories that are deeply personal and involves a relationship between a mother and her son.

As a physician raised by two atheists, I had no personal belief system about life after death. In a word, I was a confirmed skeptic. As my journey progressed, my mind opened. It is my sincerest hope that yours will open as well and that you will have a greater understanding of your own life and what’s to come ahead.

Although Erik sometimes paints a rosy picture of the afterlife, time and time again he stresses that suicide is not the answer to one’s problems. If you struggle, please understand that the information in my blog and my book is no substitute for professional help. Please click here for a list of resources for help when you find yourself considering taking your own life. Know that they are readily available when you feel that hopelessness and despair that many of us feel from time to time in our lives.

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  • Jen

    “It ain’t nobody else’s job to carry your Truth for you. Your truth is your own, and there is enough truth to go around for everyone.”
    Can I get that on a poster? 😛

  • Janet E

    hope your little yorkie is ok!

  • cristina

    :)))))))))))))))))))) so damn true Erik ! – my monkey-mind is a hyper active one 😛

    “But see I know that’s not enough for some of *my* readers,
    because all that hippy shit doesn’t calm the monkey-mind, the hamster on
    the wheel, and the fear that creates all this other shit. Unless you
    smoke A LOT of weed.”

  • cristina

    “Imagine, if instead of turning to Erik, or myself, you turned inward for truth?
    Because there, my friends, is where you will ultimately find it.” (

    This brings me back to my idea: “listen to your heart” if you want the truth ! 🙂
    BUT (again the but-butt :D) the veil of confusion is so thick sometimes, you NEED a hand to lead you…. WHEN / IF we are spiritually evolved, we already know the signaling in our heart for right /wrong path. For me now the signaling is: sweet happiness if I am on the right path to my truth or it is pride(ego) if I’m on the wrong path 🙂

    But when you take a step TOO BIG towards spiritual evolution, you have the feeling you are going insane – HERE you need a hand 🙂

    Elisa, your Erik is very dear to me – says my heart now 🙂

    • Yes! We need to make sure that we find our own truth instead of always taking Erik’s. It’s easy to get hooked on external sources for lessons and truths, but it’s all inside. Just need to recover what you already know.

  • Bridget Herrington

    I loved this post! I have been on the ‘journey to self’ as I call it consciously for a couple years now..unknowingly my whole life before that. Sometimes I find myself searching for that one book, or that one moment, or that one sign, that tells me Ive finally figured it all out, that Ive done it! “Here is the answer..your search is over!” But I am learning that as long as Im in human form, I will always be on the path to self, always learning, always finding my own truth..and Im ok with that. There is a great saying in Barbara Marcinaiks, books channeling the Pleiadians..”The more you learn..the less you know” which I find so true! Once one door of knowledge opens, you find there is 20 more behind that one! And thats what makes life exciting, and makes this crazy journey to remember who we really are so amazing. Learning to go within, and KNOW that all that I search for externally is patiently waiting for me to find within, is challenging sometimes, but I know Ill get there. Like the late great Bill Hicks says, Life is just a ride…
    Blessings to you all.

    • Am_Bro_Se

      Love the Bill Hicks reference! One of my favorites.

  • That’s terrible with your baby yorkie 🙁 I had a scare with my little chi just a few days ago. He had some kind of food poisoning, and I was afraid it was fatal.. Erik is with you whenever he is needed so no worries! Can always catch him later.

  • Louise Isom

    I’m sending healing energies to your little yorkie. Pray he does well. Erik my monkey mind is forevery thinking and it so very hard for me to be quiet and still.
    Thank you, thank you!!!

  • Tiggg

    I belong to several spiritual sites on FB and it always irks me when people make statements about the afterlife like it’s written in stone and they know it all. Personally I like to start my statement with “My truth……” I own it, no one else does, this is what I believe right now this minute. Maybe I’ll read some more and change my views and have a “New My Truth” That’s the wonderful thing about sharing information and learning from each other, Erik has been a fountain of information for me and I take what resonates with me and discard the rest. So thanks for your honesty Erik, no one can say you don’t say it like it is lol

  • Lola Jones

    Surely there is some objective truth in the world though (in which opinions are basically irrelevant)? Or is literally everything subjective? Epistemology is so frustrating lol

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