Why Visits Wane

Great news! The endlessly creative Endre Balogh is willing to offer his services to the Channeling Erik family. He will “angelize” you loved one for whatever amount you can afford. If you can’t afford anything, then you pay nothing. He sent me a metallic photograph of Erik and it’s stunning. Truly magnificent. Please check out his site.

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And now for a little Erik wisdom:

Channeling Transcript 9/23/11

Me: Hey, Jamie! How are you doing?

Jamie: I’m doing good; how are you?

Me: Very good! What are you up to? Getting ready for your big trip to Japan?

Jamie: I have one month before I take off.

Me: It’ll be here before you know it!

Jamie: I know! Oof!  I just got back from California and Colorado.

Me: Wow, you’ve been quite the globetrotter!

Jamie: I was out two weeks for that, and it was very quiet! You know, I haven’t seen Erik in so long! Normally I get these random little visits and lately, nothing!

Me: He must be pranking other people; who knows?

Jamie: He’s been busy with you, is what he tells me.

Me: Oh yeah. I’ve been swamped with all sorts of crises, but that’s all over with for now. So, hi Erik!

Erik: Hi, Mom!

Me: I love you! Happy birthday, belated!

Jamie: Holy cow! Really?

Me: Yeah!

Jamie: That’s spooky.

Me: Tuesday was his birthday, two days ago. Why?

Jamie: Really? Oh, man! Dude, I was just fixing the light bulb, and I was on a ladder, and he came in and I said, ‘Erik, don’t screw with me; I’m on a ladder.’ And he goes, “You know, you could tell me happy birthday!” So I say, ‘Why?’ I don’t know when his birthday is! But he didn’t tell me the date or if it was coming or past or whatever. I’m freaking out that you just said that!

Me: Very cool! He got a lot of well wishes from the blog members, so that’s good.

Jamie: Aww, how sweet!

Me: Now, my first question today is why do our deceased loved ones come to visit more at first, then their communication sort of wanes in frequency. For instance, Erik, when you died you used to come all the time with pranks, visits and smells, but now those visits haven’t been as frequent. I do get an occasional rank smell, but…

Erik: I think it’s for two reasons. It’s to help the person who’s passed over say goodbye and have closure and grieve—

Me: Well, why do you have to if you’re not really gone?

Erik: —and it’s to help the human say goodbye, and be comforted by the fact that we’re not totally dead.

Me: Okay, but what’s wrong with just visiting anyway, because we know you’re not gone. Why would you have to move on and have that separation?

Erik: A lot of people, that’s what they believe in. It can only work within the person’s belief system.

Me: Ah! On both sides of the veil, right?

Erik: Yep. That’s the sticky part.

Me: I see. Well, you can visit me any time you want!

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My sister, Laura, and several blog members suggested I convert Erik’s room into a mediation room/sanctuary. I could put most of his nonessential belongings in storage and give some things away while keeping the important memorabilia to showcase in some way, museum style. The guitars, hats, riding equipment, and other things could be hung on the walls.

A 50 inch flat screen and comfy chair would be perfect for Rune and Erik to watch motorcycle races together on the SPEED channel. Maybe I could finally learn to channel Erik there or meditate and chill with him. I could have my phone sessions with Jamie and help her host the conference calls there. Perhaps Robert could hold his future radio interviews or channeling sessions in “The Erik Room, too. So many possibilities to lesson the pain, all thanks to you guys. What do you think? Any other suggestions?

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