Best of Erik: How Do You Love Yourself

Liz posed a very thought-provoking question: How do we learn to love ourselves. Apparently, this question is so essential to our very being, our essence, that Erik through Jason, wasted no time in providing his insight. Thanks Erik, Jason and Lizzie.

Erik, How do I love myself?

“OK, dude, here’s the thing. Love, people think love is something they need to do. They think that it’s somethin you gotta find, or take. That’s not what self love is about. It’s not anything you can find, or something another persons gonna be able to give you. No one can make you feel it. No one can show you the way. What’s going on is that people are reacting to the shit in their life. IT can be awesome, or crap. But what they are doing is feeling uncomfortable with how they feel about what they are experiencing. This can be buggin you, or making you hate yourself, or hatin other people. Don’t matter, what their doin is seeing themselves apart and outside from their reality. And most of the time they’ve created that reality through the choices they made or didn’t make. So then they feel resistance to how they “really” want to be within that experience. They know on a soul level how they want to be. They want to be who they really are and be ok with it. It’s just that they are not paying attention to themselves. They are looking everywhere but where they should be. Their self. Love has never ever been about looking outside. It’s about looking in and accepting who you are, shit and all and just smile, just simply surrendering to yourself. Surrendering to the experience. Only then can you find the peace that letting go gives. And in that moment, it’s a now moment, then can you see that person you wanna be. You can then freely make the choice to move to or twords that perception, that idea. This moves you to who you always are, what you love about yourself. The return to the self, the remembering of who you are. This is always greater than you see yourself now, It is always a journey of love. There is always more of you to love. Always more to understand. This is self, love. Surrender, acceptance, be. Who I wanna be helps me be, feel, and understand. I love the feeling moving to this gives me. I wanna help you feel this too. I love how I feel when we work together to feel this. This is unconditional love of self. The knowing that you are worthy, and despite and in-spite of anything life seems to through at you, you wanna keep diggin your self up. At the bottom of that pile is a heart of gold you always had. Dude, just let it shine. Your worth it. You’ll love yourself for it!”

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  • MikeHulse

    LOL I’ve had a ticking off from Erik over this the other day. How ironic has been posted. lol

  • Debra Salazr

    You make it sound so easy Erik! 🙂
    I guess it is all the shit in our lives that keep us from loving ourselves. It would be so awesome to just be free of all the negativity that holds us from living our life purpose and loving ourself. I try to do what i can to develop my gift to one day help others but when you have others in your life that dont believe in the things you do, makes it hard to keep that positive focus. Espcially if that other person is my husband. LOL. I always tell him…when it happens to you and you see or feel something the way I have you will believe. I just wish it would happen to him now so he can being so negative about what I believe in. Hey Erik! I invite you to my home to play a few pranks on my hubby and put his perspective in check!! 🙂

    • Kryssey

      Debra….my family and friends are a bunch of skeptics. That’s why I introduced them to the digital voice recorder so that they could experience a EVP for themselves. Nothing will turn it all around like getting proof of the after life! But keep in mind; most skeptics are just scared about the unknown. I opened my gifts up and was forced to close them b/c of the naysayers out there. It really is hard to believe in something with little support. That’s what channelingerik is all about! If you can’t get support from them, you can get it from people here! 🙂 <3

      • Debra Salazr

        Thanks Kryssey! Like you I have had to step away from opening up to my gifts and always doubted myself. But I am now looking foward to being focused and determined to open up. I am looking forward to talking to everyone here on channelingerik! I love how its so amazing what really is there in the after life. 🙂

    • neela

      Hi
      debra salazr, I have the same problem here. Its a daily issue. I say Hi to Eric. Have his photo in my son’s room. Eric please take care of my beloved son Sree Ganesh.
      channelling Eric has made me stronger and accept what happened to my son .
      Eric and mum you both a doing a great wonder to us. thank u.

  • Kryssey

    The spirits in the After Life really do make all of this seem easier than it really is…lol. If only we could all live in this world; where we don’t have to deal with other people pushing their beliefs, opinions, etc out on us daily. Even places of employment create these stresses in our lives; because one persons expectations may be different from our own! But I will say this much; we all signed up for the challenge… and to survive and get through it means we are truly as strong as Erik says we are! 🙂

    • Debra Salazr

      I couldnt agree with you more!! 🙂

  • bluewolf

    Wow! Not even kidding…this hit something inside me. No, actually, moved something inside me. I felt it in my heart saying, “it really is that easy!” Thanks Erik! Love you!

  • BarbaraSparks

    As usual, a blog entry speaking to my heart gets posted. Today I was expressing my new understanding that I have been focused on the external value of what can happen when people work with me in the spiritual realm. All of a sudden I realized that all this activity to create “value” is separating myself from the understand that I AM VALUE… just like I AM LOVE – I don’t need to create it, prove it, quantify it – the normal business paradigm that I am trying to work in. Once I REALLY, REALLY got it that I AM… that it is truth and that is just perfect, my inspiration began to flow, actually flood, into my being. After being in the self love business for a while now – I am finally getting it. Thanks Eric for supporting this journey I’m choosing to experience with YOU!

    • Christine

      I love this. 🙂

  • Christine

    I love this so much, that loving ourselves is simply being with what is, completely and without judgment. How simple, profound, and also challenging as the earthlings that we are! Thanks, guys.

  • Kryssey

    I agree! This is my place to keep peace in my life. and if you cannot share your love for spiritual enlightenment with your loved ones; you can share it with the people on here. There is no teasing on here. People don’t make you feel crazy or misunderstood.

    I used to worry more about how I affect others… now I only care about how others affect me. This whole experience has not only opened my eyes… but it has changed my life for the better. I don’t think I could ever go back to who I used to be. And I am okay with that. We should all be true to ourselves. 🙂

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