We’re here in Breckenridge (after only a total of 1,100 miles of travel,) and it’s absolutely beautiful here. Seventy degrees. Low humidity. Crisp air and blue skies. I’m going to have a tough time going back to Houston where it’s in the 90s with high humidity.
Feeling lazy and relaxed so this is all the intro you get!
Here’s a heartwarming story submitted by a blog member. It’s pretty long, so I’ll let it stand alone.
I am a family doctor in Guelph Ontario Canada
I am a single parent with one surviving child, my daughter is 21 and does not live with me.
My son JORDAN GEORGE JAWAHIR died on July 15,2015. It was unexpected but he had an episode of necrotising pancreatitis in March that apparently left only the head and uncinate process intact, complicated by thrombosis in the hepatic vein. He did drink a lot, as much as his friends did, but he was unlucky enough to get a relatively rare consequence of alcohol use, and the worst possible type of pancreatitis which as I understand it was rare.
He got abdominal pain at 11 pm at night and I was able to stay with him until 1 pm the next day when I had to leave for work. I got a call at 8.30 pm telling me they had called a code blue because he had stopped breathing.
I got to the ward and was met by a GI specialist who told me I needed to sit down. At that moment my world was effectively destroyed as Jordan and I had a close relationship and I knew what was coming. They found him on the bed not breathing and without a heartbeat ,they estimated for 2 minutes. The GI specialist knowing he was my son called a code and went through 8 cycles of resuscitation but U/S had shown 3 litres of fluid in his abdomen.
Apparently there had been an unrecognized piece of non-necrotic pancreatic tail that had necrotized and perforated his splenic artery. I can only hope that they had given him enough morphine and he thought he was just going to sleep.
He was a good singer and songwriter and his band was about to take off,which just makes his loss even more tragic.he was covering a song with the lyrics “your vacant smile will haunt me forever” and he insisted on changing it to “MY vacant smile will haunt you forever” about a week before he died in spite of opposition from everyone in the band over this.
One of my patients Tony called me and said that Jordan had a lyric book and wanted the second last thing he wrote to be on his death card. Tony had never met Jordan and had no way of knowing this, as well as other information like the exact numbers of guitars and what types were in Jordan’s room.
As he advised, there were unexplained electric phenomena – lights going on and off, DVD recordings of him singing at age 10 would not play for hours, then did.
I had a crystal skull vodka bottle that his half-sister and a friend really liked and they looked at it carefully. It was in my room-no one else came in, but the next morning I noticed writing on it that the girls swore were not there the night before- this was 2 days after his death. In his handwriting were the words” I’m sorry I love you dad Jordan. There were two parallel lines on each side with a v shape under them which I was told was how he always drew happy faces.
The day before his funeral Tony was on the road and pulled over to call me to tell me Jordan had just passed over( 6 days after he had died)
After his funeral about 50 people went to a bar where Jordan was popular and would draw in a lot of people when he was singing on karaoke night.
I heard they had put up his death card in the bar- when I went to see it the waitress said that after everyone left there were hundreds of safety pins all over the floor- all his friends said none of them had safety pins on them. Apparently they kept finding safety pins all over the place including behind the bar for the next three days.
Quite a few other totally inexplicable things happened over the next 2 weeks.
About 3 weeks after his death Tony emailed a link to CHANNELLING ERIK on youtube and said Jordan had asked him to send it to me and to tell me he really wanted me to watch it.
I had never heard of Erik and your story before, so I don’t know how Jordan would know about the video and I assume he wanted me to know like Erik that he was all right.
I stopped working as I was in intense grief, then I started researching everything about life after death, NDEs, leaving the body, as well as Quantum Physics and how Quantum mechanics postulated parallel universes and quantum tunnelling and if the fact that electrons just appear in one shell without evidence of transit was proof of a dimension where time does not exist.
I found some of the books and internet information a bit far-fetched, but I have been trying to build a belief system based on reasonably consistent believable data on communications from the afterlife and keep trying to see if science had any proof of an after-life.
Jordan has never made direct contact with me.
I did go to a psychic medium who charged a lot and my analysis was that she was a total fraud. She asked me why I was there and I showed her the death card- I had opted to put Batman on the front instead of the usual pastoral scene, and she spent 30 minutes grilling me on what I thought Batman meant to Jordan, told me Jordan’s purpose was to fight evil but he left to soon and wanted me to finish his work -I have no idea what she meant,
Then she did the usual thing that frauds do which was use flattery telling me I had spiritual powers but I stay in my intellect, and a lot of other stuff like I had the force in me .
She had claimed she was channelling the Elohim and I had to explain the meaning of the word to her and that it meant gods,but the bible had to use angels or messengers as it was monotheistic.
I then showed her the skull and asked her to ask whoever she was channelling to ask Jordan what the symbols were. She looked up at the ceiling for 2 seconds and said she was told it was an arrowhead- she seemed put out when I told her they were Jordan’s special way of drawing happy faces.
She then changed the subject to tell me she had held a similar skull and had a healing ceremony with a mayan holy man and all fifty of her clients felt their diseases going away.
I asked her if the skull belonged to a woman in Kitchener near Guelph, she said yes and I proceeded to explain to her that was the Anna Mitchell- Hodges skull and it was a fraud and listed about ten different pieces of evidence showing that.
She ended the session right there and told me I owed her $400, I only gave her $300 which was all I was carrying, went home disappointed and analysed the session – it was clear she showed no ability as a medium and had not even bothered to Google the nonsense she had been successful using on hundreds of gullible people.
I read where you went through a few mediums before you found one who actually was able to tell you things that she could only have gotten from the afterlife from Erik.
I see that you do a lot of events but I was wondering if you do any in Canada- Guelph is about an hour away from Toronto,
Just to verify someone can google my name and Jordan’s picture and his obituary is about the 6th entry on the first page.
Do you think that Jordan could have met Erik and was told by him to make sure I watched the video. I know you are very busy and may not have time to respond to me, but your input would help as I am not going to return to work . This is distressing to my patients and I feel I am letting them down after all the nice things they have said about me on a rating site.
Elisa here: Yes, your son and Erik were behind nudging you to the blog.
There seems to be no way I can lessen the grief as everything I see triggers memories of Jordan, but your books help a bit, but I think I really need some more evidence, as I find that I am finding inconsistencies between people in the psychic/mediumistic field as I read more and more and I am making copious notes under a heading In Search of Jordan.
Thank you for being a guide to others like me who are trying to synthesize science and proof of the survival of the personality after death.
I know this is not a personal Erik story, but the tenuous link of Jordan asking me through a medium to study Erik’s story makes me wonder if he could have heard about this from Erik
Remember that Jordan is the same, just without a body, and he wants to continue to have a relationship with you. Maybe you can ask him what the best way to communicate with him is.