Brenda’s Question
Hello, I have been visiting your site and have a question for Erik. I am hesitant to put it on the site, because of anyone that might recognize the situation.

A family in our town was killed coming back home to Colorado. Mother, father, son and daughter were hit head on from a drunk driver. Can Erik tell me if they are all together and did they suffer during the crash? Is J. watching over Ma.? Such a senseless tragedy; we are all trying to get some meaning to all. Thanks for your time.

Father – R. 45
Mother – L. 48
Son – J. 18
Daughter – Mo. 15

Thank you so much. I am hoping, as everyone, to get something that helps us move forward, but I really want the truth. I appreciate yours and Erik’s help.

Thanks,

Brenda

Channeling Transcript
Me: Here’s one from a very selfless reader. She wants to ask about a family from her town. They were all killed while driving home to Colorado. She wants to know if they’re all together and if they suffered during the crash. She also wants to know if J. is watching over Ma.
Kim: And who’s asking the question?
Me: Oh, sorry! It’s from Brenda, age 44, lives in Colorado. The crash was in Colorado. Okay, the father, R., was 45. The mom, L., was 48. Their son, J., was 18 and their daughter, Mo., was 15. I don’t know how old Ma. is. I think it’s Brenda’s kid but I’m not at all sure.
Erik: It was their destiny.
Me: Okay.
Erik: This happened when it did, uh, it was their destiny to die all together. And they’ve all died together before, Mom. They’re part of the same soul group, and they prefer to plan things so that they all die together. And also it looks like there was an animal in the car too. Anyway, the reason this was the perfect time for them to exit stage left and come back here is because they all accomplished what they were supposed to do on the earthly plane in that lifetime. This made the crash possible. It was a necessary means of them to exit. I’m talking about the crash, of course. So they’re al living together here, very, very happy.
Me: Oh, good.
Erik: Yeah, it’s kinda cool, because they live a life like you live, Mom, you know, with the kids. And sometimes the kids will say to their mom and dad, “Which plane are we on?” That’s how similar their life in Heaven is to how it was on the earthly plane. The kids go to school, the dad works, um, you know, the mom bakes cookies, they got a grill, so they barbecue.
Kim: Now, did they suffer in the crash?
Erik: No. It was like—you know, some people do suffer, but…
Me: Oh, yeah. You’ve shared some of those instances with us before.
Erik: When the vehicle was coming, they had a moment to see that, and it was like an “Oh shit!” moment, and their souls all popped out of the bodies. So they all stood by and watched what happened. It was also part of the destiny for someone in the other vehicle to be killed.
Kim: Do you know if that was the case, Elisa?
Me: No. Uh, uh.
Erik: That was part of that person’s destiny, too. Alcohol was involved. Um, so they just watched; there wasn’t any pain for any of them.
Me: Oh, that’s good. Thank God!
Erik (chuckling): And J. said, “Whoa! Whoa!” when he saw their vehicle after the crash. He said, “Whoa! Awesome! Whoa!”
Kim: Does he look over Ma.?
Erik: Sure. Both kids visit Ma. J. was closer to her, and they’re talking about Ma. being a girl cuz that’s a name that can be for a girl or a boy. But both come visit, hang out. They listen to music, play video games, you know, watch TV. They kick back, hang out. They like spending time with her.
Me: Awesome.
Erik: Yeah, so Ma. is going to be seeing them, especially when she’s in her bedroom, and she goes to sleep, then wakes up in that stage between waking and sleeping. She’s really open then.
Kim: That’s great that she’s going to be able to see them and talk to them. It’s sort of like their life continues as it was on the earthly plane. The whole family, I mean. How great!