Jeannine’s Question
I am very thankful that you are even taking questions from strangers like myself. I am also very grateful you Elisa for helping me get an answer. I feel I need guidance as I am confused. I have had a couple of really tough situations where my supervisors betrayed me. In both situations I lost my job. I want to know is this karmic? What will it take for me not to go through this again? I am alone and depend on my job for my livelihood. Is this my time to leave? I felt this last time I had a choice to leave, and I didn’t take it – at least not yet. I long to be back home—I don’t feel I belong here at all. How can I manifest what I want in this lifetime?
I am going to be 55 on July 17th and I live in New York City.
Love and blessings! Thank you!
Jeannine
After assuring Jeannine that Erik will try to help the best way he can, she sent this response:
Jeannine’s Second Response
Thanks so much! What wonderful work you and Erik are doing on behalf of people. Please tell him that. Whatever he wasn’t able to contribute when he was living in his body, he is certainly doing it now. I am very moved by your generosity. I need the help, because I lost my job almost three months ago for similar reasons as the last time, which was about 8 years ago. My boss felt threatened by my expertise and knowledge in both situations, which of course makes me question how I can work and support myself financially.
Channeling Transcript
Me: The next question comes from Jeannine, Erik. She needs guidance. She’s confused, like most of us. She’s been in a couple of tough situations where her supervisors betrayed her over and over again. She wants to know if this is karmic. What will it take for her not to go through this again? She’s alone and dependent on her job to make ends meet. She want to know if this is her time to leave. She had chances this lifetime to leave but didn’t take it.
Kim: To leave the earthly plane?
Me: Yes
Kim: Okay, I have information from Erik already.
Erik (laughing): There are times when we all feel like we don’t belong!
Kim: She…let me dispel that notion of exit points.
Elisa: Okay.
Kim: When we plan our destinies on the earthly plane, we plan ONE exit point, the time in which we expect to pass back to Heaven.
Erik: Jeanine is going to live until she’s really old. That’s her destiny. The reason she’s having so much trouble with the people she’s worked with is because—hellooooo—she’s a teacher on the earthly plane! So, she’s going to draw to her people who need to learn from her. Now if she were on the other line, she’d say, “But they’re not learning from me.” But her guardian angels would be saying, “You were there willing, ready and able to do the work.” It’s immaterial what they learn from her. What does matter, for her part, is that she’s willing, ready and able to do the work, and she has been. For her part, all of these spiritual contracts have been successfully fulfilled. We should not harbor any expectations whatsoever of how other people react to us as teachers.
Me: Yeah!
Erik: What Jeannine does is she expects others to treat her like she treats them, and that’s not going to happen, because she is of a great level of enlightenment. She has a lot of empathy and respect for others. There are things that have happened to her that she would NEVER say or do to anyone else! But that’s why they’re the student and she’s the teacher! She’s expecting them to be of the same caliber. Not gonna happen. So her guides want her to look at those experiences that are necessary for the other person. They learned as much as they choose too, given free will and all. So she’s going to keep drawing to her people who are her students. The key is for her to channel her guides when she meets new people, whether in her professional life, her personal life, in any context. She needs to ask, “Why did this person come into my life, what is my spiritual contract with them, and what can I expect in this relationship? Can I expect a little friction? Should I expect for us to get along perfectly? What can I do to make it better? What do I need to do for this other person, because I prefer to focus on that.” That’ll give her much more awareness of what she can expect from them, realistically. She’s been unrealistic in her expectations of others.
Me: Okay, but what can she do from the practical standpoint? I mean, she’s afraid to be financially vulnerable. She’s got to put food on the table and all! What can she do to avoid financial ruin?
Erik: She’s supposed to be working through issues of independence and empowerment, self-esteem, self-worth, confidence, which she’s doing right now. Oh, and once she gets to a certain point with those issues, she’s going to attract Mr. Right, a man who can bond with heart, mind, body and soul. She’s probably gonna ask you when, Mom. He’s coming in about a year and a half, but she’s got to continue to work on these issues. Now, as for her career, she’s going to get ready to launch into her life’s work. She sure as fuck isn’t in it right now! Now some people think that once they get into their life’s work, all the stumbling blocks will be removed from their path, and then it doesn’t work that way.
Me: Oh, sure. It’s about perseverance.
Erik: What she ought to do next…her guides think she should do something completely different than what she was doing before. And they’re recommending for her, one more “day gig” as she’s getting her own business up and running. Then she’s off and running her own business! The kind of business her guides recommend she get into now would be some sort of outside sales where she has some wiggle room with her schedule. Now she hasn’t done that before. They understand that. But that doesn’t mean that she can’t do it. We all have to do something for the first time. Julia Child had to cook her first soufflé. Babe Ruth had to hit his first baseball. Okay, so, Jeannine has to get over that, “Well I’ve never done that before, so how do I know I can do it? She won’t be able to develop confidence until she does it. Having faith in oneself and having faith in one’s guardian angels is important.