Ah, today is bittersweet. This, the day of Erik’s birth, conjures up joyful memories as well as a deep sense of loss. What do I give a boy who has given his life for us? What gift could possibly do justice to a young man who loved and still loves so deeply? He is not here to lavish with birthday kisses and hugs, not even birthday spankings (which many of you might agree the little prankster deserves from time to time.)

Do I say, ‘Rest in Peace, My Love?’ We who are familiar with Erik know that resting is not in the realm of “Erik behavior.”  Maybe there just aren’t any words. But for all of the insight, the wisdom, the sacrifice, the love, the friendship, and the companionship he has shared with this wonderful family, I don’t know what more I can do except light a candle for him and continue to love him with all of my heart and soul. Happy birthday, Pumpkin.

Please enjoy this video of Erik’s first day on Earth, and make note of his very first little prank!

By the way, I just received this message from Erik through Jason:

“I’ve had lots of birthdays, Lots of memories. Lots of lives, But, Any memory totally fails when compared to what I feel from you right now. Your love is way better than any thing I’ve ever experienced.”