Before I share this post, I’d like to tell you all how much I love you. I hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving. And to those of you who, like me, will be missing the presence of a loved one tomorrow, know that they are and will be with you forever. We must try to be thankful for the time we had them in the physical. In sorrow, one can always find joy.
Me: Okay, now, Erik. What about children? What is there experience after death, since they really don’t have a belief system indoctrinated into them? (pause) Can you tell me more about that?
Erik: Well, most of the time, with children, they know they’re going to die in advance.
Me: Oh, okay.
Erik: There’s not fear around it, so their perspective of death is very clear.
Me: That’s good.
Erik: Think about it, Mom. Fear is part of a belief system and it clouds our perspective a lot. Fear comes from an expectation of what it should be like and it doesn’t happen according those expectations. That’s why some grownups are afraid when they first cross over.
(I’ll share more on why people are afraid of death while they’re alive in recent channeling session.)
Erik: But with little kids, there is no fear. Fear is the underbelly of belief, Mom.
Jamie: Oh, he gave me a cool visual with that. It was like, I guess an animal belly, like a big fat cow belly, but it was red, like on fire. And like that was the fear, like the underbelly of belief.
Me: Wow.
Jamie: It was just a quick cool image.
Erik: So, kids don’t have that. They cross, no fear, feeling completely safe.
Me: Oh that’s so good.
Erik: Yeah, I know. So they’re wide-eyed; they’re looking around.
Me: Uh huh.
Erik: And the Light is present, and God is felt in everything, everywhere. Who the hell would be afraid of that?
Me: Yeah.
Erik: And then commonly, if they know or recognize a family member, that person will be there.
Me: Good.
Erik: If they’re young enough, Mom, they remember the spirits that were there to greet them off, uh, send them off, when they were about to go into the belly.
Me: Oh, yeah!
Erik: And if they’re going by miscarriage or abortion, that’s a very hard lesson to learn, so that baby spirit gets a heads up. They’re doing it strictly to get the lesson themselves—
Me: Okay.
Erik: —on, you know, not being able to complete the process, or they’re really making a true sacrifice. They go through it so that the mother other family members can have the lesson. In that case, it’s often to learn about loss. It’s just so different every time. But I promise you that in every case of miscarriage, stillbirths and abortion, that baby knows. You can’t murder someone who already knows it’s going to have a short life. It’s just part of the plan.
Me: Makes sense.
