Komala’s Question

I have had several very vivid dreams of my maternal grandmother to whom I was very close. She passed away suddenly in February 1997 of an aortic aneurysm. I have felt her presence several times since her death. While I have lost other family members that I have been close to, I have not had the same experiences with them. Most recently, I lost a first cousin whom I admired very much as a child. But we became estranged and I feel bad that we did not resolve our problems before her death. My question to Erik is the following: Is it possible that a soul can be indifferent to or even dislike you even after death or do misunderstandings when one is alive become trivial when one dies? My grandmother, Shantha, died in 1997 in Bangalore, India. At age 72. My first cousin, Jayshree, died in August 2009 in Madras, India at age 57.. We were very close when I was a child but became estranged. I was unable to resolve our problems before her death. I have wondered whether we carry our hurts and misunderstandings when we pass on or do they become trivial.

Thank you.

Komala

Channeling Transcript

Me: Here’s one from Komala. She says she’s had lots of vivid dreams from one of her grandmothers, Shantha, who died in Bangladore, India at the age of 72. She hasn’t had this kind of experiences with other people she has lost, even though she’s felt close to them as well, and…

Erik (interrupting): Yeah, well, Shantha is one of her guides, that’s why! She’s not just hovering or visiting every once in awhile. Nope, she’s around Komala ALL THE TIME, like 24/7, Mom. She’s working hard to help Komala move forward, especially in her life’s work. Komala was always a favorite of hers, and even though they didn’t always see each very often or for very long, they’re platonic soulmates. They’ve had tons of past lives together. I mean, she’s like totally devoted to Komala. Totally. Total adoration. Wow! She’d do anything to help her. Anything. So when Komala wants to achieve something, she needs to talk to Shantha, and she’ll give her the simplest, easliest way. Shantha also says that Komala is one of those people who can accomplish anything she puts her mind to. Kind of a freight train like you, Mom. Real powerhouse. And what will occur to her to accomplish will be what is destined for her. So Shantha is here to make sure Komala’s life become all that it can be. She’s in transition right now, Komala is. Okay, like that doesn’t mean she’s about to die or anything. Not that kind of transition! She’s just moving to another chapter there on the earthly plane.

Kim: Wow!

Me: Yeah, cool. I wonder if Komala senses that? Okay, she also has another question.

Erik: Listening.

Me: Her first cousin, Jayshree, died in Madras at the age of 57. They were very close when they were younger, but then they became estranged. Komala says she wasn’t able to resolve their problems before Jayshree’s death. Her question is: Do we carry our hurt and misunderstandings when we pass, or do they become trivial?

Erik: Oh, we let go of them COMPLETELY! You know this Mom. You already know this.

Me: Just asking! Making sure!

Erik: Hell, we can interact with our biggest enemies over here like they’re our best friends! We don’t judge anyone over here, not on the earthly plane or in the afterlife. Remember? That’s one of the biggest differences.

Me: Okay, so I guess Jayshree’s  doing okay and…

Erik (interrupting): We leave our animosity and issues at the door.

Komala’s Response

Dear Elisa & Erik,

Words cannot express how much gratitude I feel. Thank you so very much.  I feel so blessed.

God bless you both and make your noble mission successful.

with love, more gratitude than I can express,

Komala

Komala’s Second Response

Dearest Elisa & Erik,

I  have read your email  over and over again since since you sent it and I cannot describe how much happiness it has brought me.

Two things that you had written proved beyond any doubt that it was my beloved grandmother talking.

I moved from India in early 1989 after marriage and I   could not afford to visit very often or call her very often. My grandmother missed me a lot and felt very bad that we were meeting so infrequently. Even when I did visit, my visits were very brief – at the most 10 days. The second point is that, yes, I am in a transition period. My daughter went to college 2 years back and till then I had only worked part-time and all my time revolved around her. Now, often, time hangs heavy in my hands. I now know what to do – thanks to your incredible kindness – I will seek her guidance.

When I read the message in the morning, I was too moved to think of my response.

with lots of love and gratitude,

Komala

My Response

I love you too, Komala.

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