Channeling Transcript
Me: Uh, okay, let’s see. I have an Ask Erik question before we close this session. I’m trying to do just one each session until I get most of the questions for the book answered.
Jamie: Sure.
Me: This one is from Michelle. Her boyfriend, John, died when he was just 49 years old. Um, it happened this past summer. He lived in Belfast, Ireland. Michelle is also 49 and lives in Canada. So here’s her question. She’s tried so hard to communicate with John. She’s asked Erik to bring him forward; she’s tried meditating. She says they were extremely close, so it’s disconcerting to her that she has not received any form of communication with him. What’s going on?
Erik: Mom, I can only lead a horse to water; I can’t make ‘em drink.
Me: Ah!
Erik: He does want to communicate. John does.
Jamie: I don’t see John here today, bur Erik has been in close communication with him.
Erik: Yeah, I have, Mom. He’s really, really nice. Kind of a goofy guy.
Me: Okay.
Erik: Michelle and John are soulmates. They have a very intimate connection.
Me: Oh, I figured so!
Erik: She just has to understand; she’s putting down so many demands that he can’t do them. So he chooses not to do anything. John tells me that as soon as Michelle lets go of her expectations of what she feels she needs, voila!
Me: Ah!
Erik: Yeah, then John will be able to leave the signs and be very forward in letting her know he’s around her. But he says she kinda puts too much on him.
Me: So what happens? Is it a vibrational thing.
Erik: Yes, it is.
Me: Is it like a vibrational mismatch? Is her vibrational level too dense for him to penetrate?
Erik: Think about it this way, Mom. Let’s say John only knows how to touch a cheek—
Me: Um hm.
Erik: –and she’s demanding that he hold her hand.
Me: Oh, okay.
Erik: “Hold my hand so I know you’re here.” She’s not letting him give her broader signs, so when he goes to touch her cheek, she thinks it’s something else like the wind and not him at all.
Me: Ah! Sometimes I do that too. Yikes.
Erik: She’s not aware of how he’s communicating with her, because he’s doing things that she hasn’t asked for and doesn’t expect.
Me: So is he trying to develop those skills?
Erik: Oh, yeah, of course.
Me: Does he have any messages for her? I know he’s not there, dang it, but is there anything he wants to pass along to Michelle?
Erik (laughing): Stop giving demands and be open to other forms of communication from him.
Me: Okay.
Erik: So that they can enjoy—it’s new for the both of them, so let it be new. She’s trying to control more of the communication.
Me: Oh, okay.
Erik: But he is definitely around her. In fact, he wouldn’t even come here today, because he’s with her.
Me: Anything else I can tell Michelle?
Erik: Nope. That’s the most important thing. I think that’ll do it. Plus, that’s what John knew she was gonna ask, so that’s the only message he gave me to deliver.
