Stephanie’s Questions
Hi Dr. Medhus,
I have never before written to someone in cyber space, but your blog about Erik has touched me in a way that I felt compelled to write to you! First, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss – as a mother myself I can’t even begin to wrap my head around what you’re experiencing. I, too, feel the need to go on a spiritual journey and was wondering if you could recommend any books or first steps.
A little about me – I lost my beloved Oma suddenly in 1979, ten days before my 10th birthday. She was and is my soul mate. My Opa died in 1984, but his passing was less tragic since Alzheimer’s had ravaged him. No matter what I do, I can’t seem to move past the sense of loss. I was spending the night at their house the night she died, and to this day I remember word-for-word our last conversation, the way it felt when she tucked me in etc.
A day or so after the funeral, I “saw” her in their house and found her presence very comforting. My family doesn’t believe me to this day, but my trust in that experience is unwavering.
So much of my life has been colored by her death, and I just don’t know how to get past the sadness and missing her. Any guidance you have would be appreciated!
Stephanie
My Response
Oh, Sweetie, it seems to me you two are probably platonic soulmates. Kim says when some mourns so intensely and for so long, it means that you are soulmates. You probably shared many past lifetimes as all sorts of combinations: best friends, sisters, mother/daughter, twins, etc.
Have you tried channeling her? If you go to Kim’s site you can find a free teleseminar to teach you how to do it. I can also ask Erik to try to find her and bring her forward to you. He would need ages and cities for both of you and your Oma’s first name Good books: Your Eternal Self and Home with God.
Keep in touch about this at least until we figure out a way to get you past this.
Stephanie’s Response
Elisa – you are so thoughtful to reply so promptly (or at all) 🙂
I’m not sure what you needed in terms of cities. Oma was born in a German town called Bramsche, was living in Den Helder, Holland when they moved their family to Tulsa, OK in 1958. She was living in Tulsa at the time of her death. (1979)
I lived in Tulsa until age 22, and have been in Pittsburgh since 1991. Oma’s name is Agnes!
Thank you for the book recommendations – I will definitely pick them up!
Best,
Stephanie
Channeling Transcript
Me: Okay, My Sweets, I have one more today. This is from Stephanie. She’s 41 and lives in Tulsa. She lost her Oma or grandmother, Agnes, jus before she turned ten. She’s never been able to get over this loss. Um. Agnes was 69 when she died. I think she died in Tulsa, uh, oh yeah, Tulsa. She died in Tulsa.
Kim: Yes, I’m already hearing. I’m already hearing, Elisa. She’s still in Heaven.
Erik: Agnes is a wonderful presence. Very strong, very courageous, very nurturing. Mom, over here, she’s known to do anything for anyone just like when she was there on the earthly plane. Nothing has changed. She’s exactly the same! Agnes is one of those few people who are the same in Heaven as they were on the earthly plane. One of the very few people. When she was over there, she was a guardian angel in human form. Tell Stephanie that. She’s understand, and she will cry. She will cry, Mom, cuz she’ll relate to that. Agnes and her have had many, many lifetimes together on the earthly plane.
Me: Oh, I figured! Definitely!
Erik: They’ve been mother/daughter, best friends, sisters, twins. They’re platonic soulmates. So each feels a keen sense of loss without the other. They like to do things together! Tell Stephanie that this is one of the few lifetimes that she’s lost Agnes when she was such a little girl, and it’s like, “ALL THESE YEARS IN THE PHYSICAL WITHOUT HER!” But tell her Agnes has been right there with her. She’s one of her guardian angels now in spirit form. She was one of her angels in human form before she died.
Me (scribbling notes furiously to keep up): Uh huh.
Erik: Stephanie, herself, is there to act as a guardian angel for others, you know, in human form. She’s going to be living a long, long time, and she isn’t quite in her life’s work yet, and she’s going to be moving. But tell her Agnes is right there with her.
Me: Okay, I will, of course. I tell people every thing you and Kim say. No filtering.
Erik: Yeah, good. So Agnes is one of her key guardian angels, guiding her, talking to her all the time.
Kim: My goodness, Agnes and Erik both have lots to share with Stephanie! Now, when Agnes has lost Stephanie in past lifetimes, when Stephanie has passed first, Agnes has been in the same situation that Stephanie’s in now—the sense of loss that never seems to go away. It’s like you and Erik, Elisa!
Me (in somber reflection): Oh, yeah.
Kim: So, it’s the same for them. Agnes thinks Stephanie is doing very well, putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward. She says that Stephanie is going to go through some major life changes that will yield much greater fulfillment and happiness and contentment for her in regards to her life’s work, in regards to a move, in regards to her health, buying a home that makes her happy. She says Stephanie is preparing to launch into a great big, brand new chapter of her life. The key for Stephanie, Agnes says, is “to stay in touch with us as much as possible”—not only her, Agnes, but the rest of her guardian angels, because they can give Stephanie a blow-by-blow, day-by-day indication of what she could and should be doing. That’s going to help her life move forward so much faster.
Erik: Agnes says Stephanie feels confused and unsettled just like she hasn’t found her thing yet. She hasn’t! Oh, and Agnes wants to tell Stephanie this: How can she feel whole and complete if there are big open pieces of her destiny left to fulfill.
Me: Okay.
Erik: Agnes would like you to include that on the blog.
Agnes (speaking directly to me in a grandmotherly voice): Will you, dear?
Me: Yes ma’am, of course.
Agnes: Hello, dear! We know each other!
Me (gasping in surprise): We do? Oh, goodie! I’m honored!
Kim: Agnes is darling! She’s amazing! She’s been your mother, Elisa, and she’s been Rune’s mother…
Me: Oh my gosh! Cool!
Agnes: There were some lifetimes, eons ago when we were brother and sister.
Me: Wow!
Agnes: That’s how you can bicker and argue a little bit and still get along and accept one another for who and what you are.
Erik: Agnes is a very special being. Not that everybody isn’t that we’ve talked about, but Agnes is—
Me: Extra special!
Erik: Oh! Amazing being. And Stephanie knows this.
Agnes: You know what used to amaze me? When Stephanie’s family would not see her the way I did…see her for who and what she is. It used to hurt me when I heard Stephanie criticized when she was a child. It would hurt me. It was cause me physical pain. Stephanie has acknowledged since my passing that those on the earthly plane didn’t see me for who and what I was and am.
Me: Awesome! Nice to hear from you again, Agnes! I’ll pass all of this along to Stephanie.
Agnes: Thank you, my dear. Good bye.
Erik: Bye, Mom. Later.
Me: Bye, Agnes. Bye, Erik. Love you, Sugar Bear.
(I can almost hear him groan!)
Isn’t it wonderful how connected we all are? Now I ask myself: What past lives have Stephanie and I had? What past lives have Stephanie and Rune had? Makes you wonder, and that’s a nice thing. That’s what the soul does best second to love.
Stephanie’s Response
Elisa,
I’m speechless, which is incredibly rare for me! 🙂 I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve read your e-mail. I just want to absorb the words and roll around in them. I can’t wait to read the transcript, but take your time getting to it. I can’t imagine how busy you must be.
I also loved that you and your husband have been together with Oma and I before. Perhaps that’s why I was so drawn to the Huff Post article and your blog. From the first Facebook message I sent you, I felt very comfortable – like I was writing to an old friend!
Now we just need to figure out how to meet each other in person!!
Love,
Stephanie
