Pamela’s Question
I first want to say I have enjoyed every post of your visits with your Son in the afterlife and I’m so sorry for your loss. After all the reading I know that Erik is happier now.
I wasn’t real sure how to make a request for Erik and I saw you posted your email address and decided I would send it to you in an email. Hope that is okay.
My request: 8 years ago today my best friend lost her Son ( her name: Kathy age 54, Callisburg, Texas). He was also my son’s best friend in the whole world! They shared everything together! His name is Wesley he was 19 and lived in Callisburg, Texas at the time of his death. He and my son along with some friends were at this house and there was some drinking involved and Wesley and a girl got on a four wheeler and was riding it down the road, evidently lost control of the four wheeler and threw them both off, and Wesley struck his head on a rock and he died. The girl lived. There has been some question on who was driving the four-wheeler at the time of the accident.
Questions: Is Wesley ok? Who was driving the four wheeler? Has he been trying to have contact with his Mom? I’m sure she wants him to know that she loves him sooo much and misses him every day! And my personal request is I would like for him to watch over my son (John) he has had it so rough since Wesley died, and I know it’s because of the loss.
Hope this reaches you, and I can get some answers….
Thank you and Erik so much for trying to help so many people!
Pamela, age 44
Callisburg, Texas
Channeling Transcript
Me: Okay, Sweetness. This one is from Pamela. She’s 44 and lives in Callisburg, Texas. She has a question in behalf of her best friend, Kathy, age 54, also from Callisburg. Kathy’s son, Wesley, died in that same town at the age of 19 in a four-wheeler accident. I guess she’d like to have some details about the accident first. A girl was with him, so one question would be: who was driving?
Erik: Wesley. Wesley was driving.
Me: Is he okay, Erik?
Kim: And I have a question, if I may.
Me: Um hm.
Kim: Oh, here’s Wesley. He’s right here! Erik brought him along!
Me: Oh, okay! Great!
Kim: Big smile! Big, huge smile. Wesley, can I ask you kind of a penetrating question?
(Pause)
Kim: He’s looking at me like “Do I have a choice?” Are you just saying you were the driver so that the girl doesn’t have any—
Wesley: No! No! I was driving.
Me: What happened, Wesley?
Wesley: I drank too much, and there were drugs; it wasn’t anything new. I use to drink and smoke. Pot. There was some pot. So I lost control of the four-wheeler, hit my head. I got out of my body before I even made contact though, cuz I knew what was happening. No pain. Didn’t feel a thing.
Erik: He’s shrugging.
Kim: Now, Wesley, losing your life at 19 is a pretty big deal. You sound kind of casual about it.
Wesley: Well, I’ve gotten used to the idea, and that’s just my personality. It’s like, I’m not gonna jump up and down and scream about it or cry. It’s what it is.
Me: So you’re used to it now, but you weren’t used to the idea when you were alive, right?
Wesley: Oh, Hell no!
Erik: I’m told he was raising a fit when he first got here. He wanted to come back cuz he felt he wasn’t finished. Definitely, definitely not a suicide.
Me: Oh, of course not; it didn’t sound like it was! So was it your destiny?
Wesley: Yes it was.
Me: Why?
Wesley: Because the lifetime before this one I committed suicide.
Me: Oh!
Wesley: So I planned to come back to learn about the value of life there on the earthly plane, not that it’s easy or simple or always joyful, but the value of it, and that you need to live out your life as you planned it according to your destiny. So to lose my life at such a young age unexpectedly, emotionally, anyway…it was horrible; it was awful; it was fucked up!
Me: Oh, no!
Wesley: But now I understand, because I lost it. Through losing it, I understand the value of it. When I go back there to the earthly plane, I’m staying every single second that I can. My soul has progressed so much because of it. Valuing life is a big deal, a really big deal.
Erik: You know how there are people who don’t wanna let go no matter how old or sick they are?
Me: Yeah.
Erik: Those are people who have lost their lives early. That’s what I think, anyway.
Me: Very insightful! Have you been trying to contact your mom, Wesley? She wants you to know she loves you so much and misses you every day!
Wesley: No, I mean I’ve popped in to visit at times, but I really haven’t been spending a lot of time around her yet, because when I got to Heaven, I realized that I was fucked up and needed some therapy, so I’ve been doing that, working on lots of shit. What I wanted was to get the therapy I needed, grow and expand, evolve, let go of things, and assume responsibility. I always had trouble with this in that lifetime: accepting responsibility, being accountable for what I did and what I said. I was sort of a fuck up sometimes. I wasn’t moving forward with my life, and my mom would ask me, “So what is it you’re going to do? Are you going to go to school? Are you going to work? What is it you’re going to do?” Mom was worried I was going to end up like Dad. I would never have been like Dad; we were completely different people. I’ve been going to therapy so I can learn who I am, who I’ve been, what I’m supposed to become, so when I visit Mom, I’ll have reached an awareness, uh I’ll be talking to her from my highest level of my being. I’m really excited about that. It’s kind of a surprise. (chuckling) I guess it isn’t anymore!
Kim and I laugh.
Wesley: No, it still will be, because Mom has no idea what my true potential is. Mom was always good at seeing that—seeing other people’s potential, she was always good at that, but she’s going to be real surprised when I interact with her, and it’s the new and improved me!
Erik: He’s really excited about it, and he’s working really hard on himself. He wants his mom to know he’s finally taking responsibility for what he does and what he says. He also finally learned to say I’m sorry and I screwed up.
Wesley: It is nothing short of a miracle; it’s a miracle that the girl didn’t die too.
Me: Oh!
Wesley: You see, that’s part of destiny. I just met somebody here that was killed in a tornado, and the person right next to him lived.
Me: Wow. Oh, so I have two more questions here. Any messages for Mom? Also, Pamela wants to ask Wesley to watch over her living son, John, because he seems to be taking it hard.
Wesley: Just tell her I love her and “later!”
Me: You mean “later” like, “I’ll visit you later?”
Wesley: Yeah.
Erik: He’s really excited about visiting his mom at a higher level of awareness.
Wesley: John’s going to be fine. He’s going to be just fine. A girl will get him out of his funk. He just needs some more p****.
Kim: I never, ever filter words, but words like this, I do. Oh, I don’t mind it at all, but I just want to be sensitive to everybody else.
Me: Oh, sure.
Wesley: Well you asked me!
Me: I know! I know!
Kim: He speaks plainly, and Erik is laughing loudly.
Me: Oh, I’m sure Erik is loving this. So will he watch over John?
Erik: Of course.
Me: Why is he taking it so hard?
Erik: Guilt. Guilt. And there’s more. They’ve been known to be brothers in past lifetimes, so John feels like a loss of a brother
Pamela’s Response
Elisa and Erik,
Was so excited to receive the email! Thank you! A little unsettling that Wesley is still in need of so much therapy and to hear that he thinks that he is such a “fuck up.” His life had only just began, he had just graduated high school and about to start his journey into adulthood. I hope he can get thru the therapy and realize how great a guy he is! His Mom, a little worried he is having a difficult time, wanted to hear more cheerful news, yet the news we received helped. Does Wesley know of the get togethers we have at the cemetery with him? My son wants to tell Wesley that he thanks him for being around and watching over him, and he misses all the great times they had! He wants to ask Wesley if he remembers the day they skipped school for a couple of hours and where they went before they decided to get back to school…and wants to know if Wesley thinks that the girl he is with now is The One?!…lol If you could ask Erik to ask Wesley those couple of questions for my son I would appreciate it and tell Wesley everyone is expecting a visit soon!!! We all send love and miss him very much!!!!! Thank you and Erik so much for the much needed answers!!!
Pamela
