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Erik on My Brush With Death
I CAN’T BELIEVE I’M ALIVE! This past June, dense fog disoriented me during a short hike in the Norwegian tundra. I endured 28 degree temperatures, hard wind and driving rain for 17 hours until finally, the Red Cross found and rescued me. The suffering was so intense that I ended up begging for my soul…
Intentions vs. Expectations
Damn I worked my butt off this weekend. I had four bougainvilleas, one large lantana and a medium sized palm to transplant from pots into the ground. I was missing my best shovel, so I had to dig through the notorious hard-packed Houston clay with a skinny little spade, cut roots that were in the…
Spook Tools
Well, I’m back from my vacation in the Dominican Republic, ready to get to work again. Rune and I had a great time doing pretty much absolutely nothing in the pristine paradise. I befriended a lot of his co-workers during those 5 days and discovered something interesting. Of course the conversation would eventually include the question:…
Jillian Steals the Show
We’ve finally found something Mr. Smarty-Pants isn’t an expert in: babies. No worries, though, because his girlfriend, Jillian, has his back. As in most of these posts, the subject can be extrapolated to other aspects of the human condition. Me: This is from a blog member. What can we do about infertility, repeated miscarriages and…
Belief and Science
I had the most wonderful experience last afternoon. I was sitting on my couch, checking emails on my laptop (I get a lot. Sigh.) and suddenly I get a strong whiff of perfume. Immediately I knew that it was my mother’s favorite, Nina Ricci Capricci. It’s no longer available, but I don’t need to smell…
OCD and Expectations
To all of you who have lost loved ones, I’ve been thinking about you during the holidays. Even after four years, I look at the empty chair at our Thanksgiving table with a heavy heart. I find it hard to choke back the tears, but because this is a day of gratitude and no one…
Mirror, Mirror, on the Wall
Me: Do spirits have a reflection? In other words, if I were clairvoyant—with I’m not, ha ha—and I see a spirit in the room, will I also see the spirit in the mirror? Erik: Yeah. You know, everybody’s clairvoyant. It’s not an “if you are.” It’s just the degree that you are. Me: Oh. Okay….
Ten Tips from Erik
Blog member, Jason, channels his past life twin bro, Erik, often and yesterday Erik (no doubt after much pestering) told him to provide us with the following ten tips. Thanks you, Jason, for giving Erik and voice, and thank you Erik, for keeping us humans in line. 10 Tips for feeling the happy child in…