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Channeling my Stillborn Baby, Seth
I knew it was going to be a bit heart wrenching for me to bring back these memories, but I felt I had to find the strength to do it since so many parents have suffered the loss of a baby. But before we go there, as usual, I have a few announcements: Don’t forget…
Love, Part One
I received this heartwarming video from a blog member yesterday. Perfect timing considering today’s topic. Click HERE to check it out. For those of you coming to the CE event in Houston next Friday and Saturday, most of us will be staying at the Holiday Inn Express on 4900 Federal Plaza Drive, Houston, TX. If…
The Way We Grieve, Part One
I had such a great vacation with my sister and brother-in-law. There’s so much nature in the state of Arkansas, and I long for that after living in Houston where concrete outnumbers trees. Plus, Laura and I are really close and can talk about anything. I had been feeling a little blah about Erik and…
Communicating with Our Loved Ones
Some of you have reported that the form for the free giveaway rejects those living outside the U.S. I’m going to try to have the publisher to change that. For those of you who missed it, if you pre-order Erik’s new book, My Life After Death (click HERE to do so,) you can click HERE to receive a…
Suicide and Loss, Part Two
I have a question for you guys. What kind of reality TV show would you watch with Jamie, Erik and I in it? There are so many possibilities, so I want your input! Ponder that after you read Part Two of Three of the Suicide and Loss series. Me: All right. How do you know if it…
Suicide and Loss, Part One
I heard the webinar class with Jamie had a big turnout and was great. I’m glad you guys enjoyed it. It’s amazing how some of the things she teaches can have such a powerful effect on our lives. Today, I’m busy as cr*#. I’m being interviewed on a radio show today at 5:00 PM and I…
The Loss of Direction
I have some exciting news, guys. Heather Quinto created a Channeling Erik Mediums Facebook page for those of you who need readings or would like to communicate with a loved one for a reasonable price. There are many to choose from. Feel free to ask people who have used a particular medium what their experience…
Motherhood
First a few announcements. You will notice soon that the archives have changed. Instead of listing them by month and year, they’ll be listed by title. That will make it easier to cherry pick the posts you want to read. Also, I finally figured out how to make the Lisa Williams channeling event into an audio only YouTube…
Jillian Steals the Show
We’ve finally found something Mr. Smarty-Pants isn’t an expert in: babies. No worries, though, because his girlfriend, Jillian, has his back. As in most of these posts, the subject can be extrapolated to other aspects of the human condition. Me: This is from a blog member. What can we do about infertility, repeated miscarriages and…
Erik on Grief
Many of you found the blog because the grief you were feeling. Here, Erik gives more insight for you. Me: So, Erik, do you have any suggestions for other parents on how to contact or channel their deceased children and how to deal with the grief of what will never be, the grief of a…
Grief is…
Just a reminder: Jamie is conducting a fascinating webinar January 14th, 6 PM EST. This is a must for those of you who are stuck in life. Here’s a description: Join Jamie on Wednesday, January 14 at 6:00 PM EST for a class called “New Year, New Root Chakra.” As each year comes to a…
Helping Our Deceased Loved Ones
Many of you, including me, have signed up for the upcoming webinar slated to take place December 17th at 6:00 PM EST. To give you a taste, here’s the first one. Since this one, Jamie has improved the audio, and the video isn’t small screen anymore. Due to another glitch, you have to move forward…
Perceiving Loss Differently
We’ve been blessed with such beautiful weather here in Houston for the last several days, so working outside has been a delight. Even better, I think it’s going to stay this way for several days, including when my friend, Leslie, and her boyfriend, Ray come to stay. What’s crazy is that Leslie is a blog member who…
Loss of Libido
Just a heads up. As I mentioned earlier, I won’t be able to answer any of the comments until after things calm down with the whole book thing. I know some of you have addressed me personally so please, please, please don’t get your feelings hurt if I don’t respond. I’m just going to automatically…
Loss of an Ability
Let’s continue our series on loss: Me: Tell me a little bit about the spiritual aspects of a loss of an ability, Erik. There are so many examples like someone becoming a paraplegic, someone becoming blind or deaf, etc. Erik: It goes back to attachment again. You’re focusing on something that you’re still attached to…
More About Loss. Yes, Again
This is such a timely topic for me because I’ve been feeling really down, missing Erik. His birthday and his death day are just around the corner so that doesn’t help. On the way home from an errand I just burst out crying. I think that’s a good thing because I’ve never really sobbed, I…
The Loss of a Relationship
Most of us have lost a relationship of some kind in our lives whether it’s a friend or a family member. Sometimes it’s devastating and keeps us from moving forward. We get stuck. Sometimes it’s a relief. Have you ever cut ties with someone who’s been a negative influence in your life? I’m talking about people…
Loss, Part Two
Of course I still struggle with Erik’s death. I know I haven’t written about it very much for a long time, but I do. There are things that make me cringe like gunshots on TV shows or movies. For instance, I was watching a Netflix original series called “Damages” a while back and, without warning,…
Loss, Part One
I want to remind everyone about Jamie’s next webinar class. Personally, I think it’s one of the most important subjects in all things spiritually because so many ailments, physical or otherwise, can be healed through crystals. Like I said earlier, each one has their own vibrational frequency, and, since we’re energy too, they can affect our…
Back to Basics
Since it’s a holiday, I wasn’t planning to post today, but I’d like your feedback on something. Over the last couple of years, I think that the blog has lost it’s way. At first, it was centered around loss, grief, death and the afterlife. Since then, we began to ask questions that covered “fringe” topics…
Erik Breaks Down
As you’ll see by this post, losing a body doesn’t mean you lose your emotions, your ability to worry and to grieve. On the flip side, they can still feel love, something Erik does best, as his grave marker (and I) can affirm. Channeling Transcript Me: Gosh, I don’t think we have time to interview…
Channeling Carl Sagan, Part Three
I don’t know how I forgot to publish this. It was supposed to be the entry for Thanksgiving. Sigh. Mark your calendars, Peeps. This Tuesday the 29th at 7:00 P.M. CST, Erik will once again be interviewed by Sheila Gale on her internationally renown radio show, The Sheila Show. Here’s the link: http://InstantTeleseminar.com/?eventid=24454047 Be sure…
Happy Homecoming, Erik
October 6th. Two years ago. Lives ripped apart forever. This day is hard for me. The memories. Even driving down Echo Lane this morning brought back that time when we were speeding home in response to Maria’s phone call, everyone screaming at the tops of their lungs. Even opening the front door to water my…
Missing a Loved One?
Many of you have found your way to this oasis of hope by following a trail of tears. Many of you grieve. Many of you have suffered under the heavy burden of loss. You find camaraderie here. Understanding. Unity. Friendship. Compassion. But it doesn’t replace the son, daughter, lover, friend or sibling that is no…